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How to find the way to happiness.
by Sjef van de Laak
It has never been the intention, that we can only be happy if all the world-problems have been solved.
- Is it necessary to wait to enjoy oneself till the world is in perfect harmony or till we are perfect in everything we do?
- Is not the secret of happiness enjoying "to be on the road to" instead of merely "to arrive"?
- Do we really solve our problems or other peoples problems with our stress, fear, worries and irritations?
- Are all our worries the solution for the future?
Acceptance brings us in no time in the moment of NOW, to our own essence of the freedom of worries.
The wonderfulness of accepting is that energy is being released which gives us the ability to appreciate what we possess and takes away our focus from what we are missing.
We have not been created to be denied to enjoy life.
The ego is in the area of tension between "too much of this" and "too little of that." From here it makes frenetic attempts to struggle itself free from all what is annoying on one side while on the other side it is eagerly looking for all what it believes it is missing.
With this attitude the ego is fighting a titanic struggle!
Do we really think that we need to deserve happiness, that it is hard to reach a level of contentment, satisfaction and inner peace?
The majority believes that we can only be happy if we have reached a certain target, if we have a perfect relation, if we are spiritual enlightened, if we posses everything that makes us socially or spiritually a successful person.
Every time we think we have to attain to the state of happiness, it keeps one step ahead of us . . .
Why does it happen this way?
Because we if are projecting our happiness somewhere in the future, we are convinced that in the moment of NOW we have to little of one thing (love, security, health, money) or to much of another thing (burden, worries, a bad relationship, obesity).
From our inner dissatisfaction a compelling desire is stimulated to extreme satisfaction and or liberation, which consumes so much energy that we loose ourselves in it.
Probably it has become clear to you that nobody but yourself can guarantee your safety or social security.
If we really decide to choose for happiness (to be loved) regardless the situation, nobody will be able to get us away from this sensation.
However, if we choose to be unhappy (not loved) every little disappointment on our path or every mistake we or somebody else makes, will be a justification to remain unhappy.
Let us realize how blessed we are here on this globe, now in this moment of time.
The more of the blessings we can count, the more blessings we order!
If you really want to feel happiness, you should count everything you have that you cannot buy with money.
Acceptance opens the gate to gratitude.